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爸爸没有赢

没有奖杯，也想继续

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社区要办羽毛球比赛。安安帮爸爸把水杯装进包里：“爸爸，你一定是最厉害的！”

There was a neighborhood badminton match. An'an packed Dad's water bottle. “Dad, you'll be the best!”

社区要办羽毛球比赛。安安帮爸爸把水杯装进包里：“爸爸，你一定是最厉害的！”

There was a neighborhood badminton match. An'an packed Dad's water bottle. “Dad, you'll be the best!”

爸爸笑了：“我很喜欢打球，不过今天还有很多打得好的人。”安安已经想象他举起奖杯的样子。

Dad smiled. “I love playing, but there will be many good players today.” An'an was already imagining him holding a trophy.

球场边，妈妈和安安找到座位。爸爸走进场里，和对手握了握手。白色羽毛球轻轻飞起来。

Mom and An'an found seats beside the court. Dad shook hands with his opponent, and the white shuttlecock took flight.

开始几个回合，爸爸接住了好几球。安安高兴得直拍手，妈妈提醒她留在座位旁。

Dad returned several shots in the early rallies. An'an clapped excitedly, and Mom reminded her to stay by their seats.

后来，对手打出一个很快的球。爸爸伸长手臂，还是没接到。安安的手停在半空中。

Then the opponent hit a fast shot. Dad stretched out his arm but missed. An'an's hands paused in mid-clap.

又一个回合结束，爸爸擦擦汗，认真站回自己的位置。安安小声问：“他是不是要输了？”

Another rally ended. Dad wiped his sweat and returned to his place. An'an whispered, “Is he going to lose?”

最后一球落地，比赛结束了。赢的是对手。爸爸垂下手里的球拍，站了一会儿。

The final shuttle landed, and the match was over. The opponent had won. Dad lowered his racket and stood quietly for a moment.

安安没有等到奖杯，心里像少了一块。她看着爸爸：“可是你平时明明打得很好呀。”

There was no trophy for Dad, and An'an felt something missing. “But you play so well at home,” she said.

爸爸坐下来，喝了一口水：“今天他打得更好。我也有点失望，想先歇一会儿。”

Dad sat and drank some water. “He played better today. I'm disappointed too, and I'd like a little rest.”

妈妈没有催他说没关系，只把毛巾递过去。安安靠近一点，安安静静地陪爸爸坐着。

Mom did not hurry him to say it was okay. She handed him a towel. An'an moved closer and quietly sat with him.

过了一会儿，爸爸站起来，走向对手：“你今天那几个快球打得真好。恭喜！”声音不大，却很认真。

After a while, Dad stood and went to his opponent. “Your fast shots were really good today. Congratulations!” His voice was quiet but sincere.

对手也说：“你接住的那几个球很漂亮。”爸爸笑了一下。输了的一场里，也有打得好的时候。

The opponent said, “You made some lovely returns too.” Dad smiled a little. Even in a lost match, there had been good moments.

回家路上，安安问：“你下次还想打吗？”爸爸说：“想。不过我现在先想吃饭，腿也要休息。”

On the way home, An'an asked, “Do you want to play again?” Dad said, “Yes. First, I want dinner and a rest for my legs.”

安安想了想：“我以为输了，就会不喜欢了。”爸爸说：“结果会影响心情，但喜欢不一定跟着走掉。”

An'an thought. “I thought losing would make you stop liking it.” Dad said, “Results can change how we feel without taking away what we love.”

晚饭后，爸爸说起接住的一个难球，也说起几次没看准的地方。他没有把自己说成没用的人。

After dinner, Dad talked about a difficult shot he returned and a few he misjudged. He did not call himself useless.

“等休息好了，我想再练练。”爸爸说，“也想和你继续玩。”安安把小球拍放到门边：“那我们约好啦。”

“When I've rested, I'd like to practice again,” Dad said. “And I'd like to keep playing with you.” An'an put her small racket by the door. “It's a plan!”

第二个周末，他们在空地上轻轻打球。安安漏了一球，先噘嘴，再把羽毛球捡起来：“我还想再试一次。”

The next weekend, they played gently in an open area. An'an missed a shot, frowned, then picked up the shuttle. “I'd like another try.”

这次没有比赛，也没有奖杯。羽毛球来来回回，安安发现，爸爸没有赢的那天，喜欢的事情也没有结束。

There was no match or trophy this time. As the shuttle went back and forth, An'an found that the day Dad lost had not been the end of something he loved.

输了可以难过，也可以继续喜欢；一次结果不能替我们定义全部。

You can feel sad about losing and still love playing. One result does not define you.

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这次不考背诵，练一种生活能力

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允许失败后的失望，看见努力、乐趣与继续选择的空间。

共读时别急着说

不要求立刻乐观或把每次失败都转成进步任务；成人示范负责地调节情绪。

可以这样问

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一件喜欢的事，除了赢，还会带给你什么？

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可以这样问

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