日常系列 · 4–8 岁

乐乐有了新朋友

朋友的位置，会变小吗

家庭成长约 6 分钟4-8 岁中英双语

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放学后，安安抱着小车来到院子。乐乐正在和一个新朋友踢球，两个人的笑声跑得很远。

After school, An'an brought her toy car to the courtyard. Lele was kicking a ball with a new friend, and their laughter carried far.

放学后，安安抱着小车来到院子。乐乐正在和一个新朋友踢球，两个人的笑声跑得很远。

After school, An'an brought her toy car to the courtyard. Lele was kicking a ball with a new friend, and their laughter carried far.

乐乐挥挥手：“安安，这是小宇！”安安也挥了一下，却把准备好的小车藏到了身后。

Lele waved. “An'an, this is Xiaoyu!” An'an waved too, but hid the car she had brought behind her back.

她原本想和乐乐搭一座桥。现在，球来来回回，小车好像没有停靠的位置。

She had planned to build a bridge with Lele. Now the ball went back and forth, and her car seemed to have nowhere to stop.

“你要来踢吗？”小宇问。安安摇摇头：“我不太会。”其实，她心里还有一点说不出的酸。

“Would you like to kick?” Xiaoyu asked. An'an shook her head. “I'm not very good at it.” Inside, she also felt an ache she could not quite explain.

乐乐说：“那我们踢完再找你。”安安坐到长椅上，推着小车，只听见自己很轻的车轮声。

Lele said, “We'll find you when we're done.” An'an sat on the bench and pushed her car, hearing its wheels roll very softly.

他们又笑了起来。安安心里冒出一个念头：“乐乐是不是已经不需要我这个朋友了？”

They laughed again. A thought came to An'an. “Does Lele not need me as a friend anymore?”

回家路上，她没有像平时那样讲话。妈妈问：“今天的小车，好像也很安静？”

On the way home, she was quieter than usual. Mom asked, “Your little car seems quiet today too. What happened?”

安安低头说：“乐乐有新朋友了。他和小宇玩得那么开心，我怕以后都轮不到我。”

An'an looked down. “Lele has a new friend. He had such fun with Xiaoyu. I'm afraid there won't be any turns left for me.”

妈妈听完，轻轻说：“你很珍惜乐乐，也有点怕失去他。这份难过，可以说出来。”

Mom listened, then said softly, “Lele matters to you, and you're afraid of losing him. You can talk about that sadness.”

“可我又不想让他只能和我玩。”安安说。妈妈点点头：“你可以说想念，也给他自己的选择。”

“But I don't want him to play only with me,” An'an said. Mom nodded. “You can say you miss him and still leave him a choice.”

第二天，安安找到乐乐：“昨天我有点难过。我带了小车，其实很想和你搭桥。”

The next day, An'an found Lele. “I felt a little sad yesterday. I brought my car because I really wanted to build a bridge with you.”

乐乐睁大眼睛：“我没看见小车。我以为你不想踢球，就想先自己玩。”

Lele's eyes widened. “I didn't see the car. I thought you didn't want to play ball and wanted some time alone first.”

“不想踢球，和不想跟你玩，不是一回事。”安安说完，胸口那团紧紧的感觉小了一点。

“Not wanting to kick a ball isn't the same as not wanting to play with you,” An'an said. The tight feeling in her chest eased a little.

乐乐想了想：“今天放学，我们先搭桥，好吗？明天我约了小宇踢球。”安安点点头。

Lele thought. “Shall we build the bridge after school today? Tomorrow, I promised Xiaoyu a ball game.” An'an nodded.

到了约好的时间，乐乐真的来了。他带了两根长积木：“昨天你想搭的，是哪一种桥？”

At the time they had agreed, Lele really came. He brought two long blocks. “What kind of bridge did you want to build yesterday?”

他们搭了一座能让小车通过的桥。安安看着车轮滚过去，觉得昨天没说完的话，也有了地方。

They built a bridge the car could cross. Watching its wheels roll over, An'an felt there was room for the things she had left unsaid yesterday too.

过了一会儿，小宇来找乐乐。乐乐问安安：“你愿意一起搭吗？也可以先把这辆车开完。”

A little later, Xiaoyu came to find Lele. Lele asked An'an, “Would you like us all to build? You can finish driving this car first too.”

安安想了一会儿：“一起搭吧。小宇，你愿意修一条去公园的路吗？”小宇蹲了下来。

An'an thought for a moment. “Let's build together. Xiaoyu, would you like to make a road to the park?” Xiaoyu crouched down.

后来，有时他们三个人玩，有时两个人玩。不是每一次都能凑到一起，他们就再约一个时间。

Later, sometimes all three played, and sometimes two did. They could not meet every time, so they made another plan when they needed to.

安安把小车开进新修的路。乐乐有了新朋友，而他们那座熟悉的小桥，也还在这里。

An'an drove her car onto the new road. Lele had a new friend, and the familiar little bridge they shared was still here too.

朋友可以认识更多朋友，自己的失落也值得被听见。

Friends can make more friends, and your feelings of sadness still deserve to be heard.

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这本想陪孩子练什么

接纳友谊中的失落与嫉妒，练习表达需要而不控制朋友。

共读时别急着说

不以占有欲羞辱孩子，也不强迫加入新群体；持续排斥或欺负需要成人帮助，不用交新朋友掩盖伤害。

可以这样问

安安看见乐乐和小宇一起玩时，担心的是什么？
朋友和别人玩时，你希望怎样告诉他自己的感受？

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4–5 岁：先看表情和动作，允许孩子用指画面、点头或简单词语表达感受。

6–8 岁：讨论不同角色的想法和可选择的办法，不把一种选择当成唯一正确答案。

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这本想陪孩子练什么

共读时别急着说

可以这样问

今天试试看

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